Affairs cause relationships to break
I really don’t believe this, because if you are happy in your relationship and it provides you with the love and attention that most people crave for, you are not going to be interested in anyone else.
Its only when you start having problems in the relationship that you become vulnerable to other people who appear to offer the things that your partner is no longer, or never was, giving to you.
So the answer is not that affairs cause relationships to break but problems in the relationship cause people to have affairs.
Often an affair is a cry for help, it certainly makes your partner sit up and take notice. On some occasions the partner is able to acknowledge their part in the problems and then the couple have an opportunity to build a new relationship, often with the help of a Couple Therapist.
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