Recipe for a good relationship 1
“Never go to sleep on an argument”. I am sure you must have heard this said on numerous occasions, but it is really true.
Most people who have just had an argument with their partner feel bruised and hurt and want to get as far as possible away from that person. Often, thinking “I never want to talk to him or her again” and “why am I in this relationship anyway?”
They then tend to move somewhere else in the home and vow not to give in to their impossible partner. They may go to bed and turn their back and move as far across the bed as they can. Some people actually go to sleep in another room. Then in the morning, possibly with little or no sleep, the atmosphere is even worse and both people feel they are in the right and no way are they going to give in. The longer this goes on the more difficult it is to make contact again.
However, if you have a rule that you will never go to sleep without making contact, on most occasions the argument is dealt with and you are able to make up. Even if you have to agree to disagree, if you have a cuddle and a kiss you will be letting the other person know that you still love them despite their “unreasonableness”!
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